Things I wish I'd known......

Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Watch Out For "Saviors"

Some people will come into your life and create huge problems for you and then campaign against the very problems they created, appearing to be on your side. They come off looking like big heroes, when in actuality you would have been better off if they had never shown up. Try to see through this ruse and you will be better off for it, as it seems to be a very common way for your "friends" and even your own family to sabotage your life. Very often they will be thinly disguised sociopaths-people who think nothing of destroying other people's lives, and then sleep like a baby.

These people will be easy to spot because they usually will have the following characteristics in common:
  • Control Freaks-they have to know what you're doing at all times and if you're finding happiness and success in doing it they will try to sabotage you.
  • No Conscience. They don't feel bad......about anything whatsoever.
  • Insecure Egomaniacs. That about sums it up.
  • They themselves are never truly happy. If you know a control freak that's financially prosperous and still constantly miserable, chances are they're "saviors".
  • They will go out of their way to hunt you down just to tell you how great everything is going for them, even if it actually is not going that well.
  • They seem to have been put on earth for the express purpose of ruining your life.